Seven Most Important Tips About Friendship! Part-2
3- When you make a mistake, apologize immediately
Man is never perfect, that is, he makes mistakes, he makes mistakes in friendship. So if you realize that you have made a mistake, do not try to hide the mistake again and firmly assert that no, it has not been done and this is it and that is it, but instead accept it and take the opposite side, never cheat it.
It is a well-known fact that if a person makes a mistake and admits it, he will be happy with the one who made the mistake, but if you try not to do anything wrong and blame others, it is. So it's not a good thing and you can't be a good friend.
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When you apologize, your friend feels sincerity and intimacy on your part and says he understands my feelings, then your friendship continues.
4- Be honest!
If you want to be a good friend, be honest and sincere in your feelings, in your dealings with friends and in how you feel about friendship.
If you are honest, it will open the door of truth to your friends and in return their friends will open their hearts to you and open the doors of honesty.
If a friend overreacts to you, tell him or her not to be afraid, and if a friend's actions and habits upset you, don't be ashamed of it, but tell him or her that I'm doing it. I'm sorry, don't do that to me.
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There is a difference between honesty and transgression, not harming the other side on the pretext of honesty and breaking boundaries. If you think your friend is having a hard time, for example, he is in debt, try to discuss it with him, and if you know your friend is naturally like that, then shut up, don't talk to him too much. Do not engage in activities that are not necessary.
Keep in touch with people you value and know that these people are truly worthy of a long-term friendship, so invest in such friends and treat them honestly, if you do, your friendship will grow. Never be defeated and useless.
5- Don't use people
If your friends find out that you use them only for their own purposes, they will throw you away like red potatoes or potatoes. Because good friends never accept that you have done wrong to their wishes and that others have come out for their own purposes.
If you associate with a friend whose sole purpose is to form a selfish group, then it is not friendship, but opportunism or self-interest, which introduces you to empty nuts and pumpkins, because You don't make friends, you make mistakes.
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If you are famous for using people, then no one will be willing to associate with you.
Ù€ A good friendship is to buy and give something without asking: for example, if a friend gives you a ride to go to school or work every day, without him telling you, try to Do your best.
6- Be loyal
If this friend believes you and tells you something, try not to say it to anyone else, but to be faithful to his or her beliefs.
Also, never share the words of friends who have shared them with you, even in his absence.
Also, never tell baseless rumors about one of your friends.
It is important that:
One of your loyalties will be to strengthen and prolong your friendship in a good way, not to waste your time in and around a friend.
If you are known for spreading rumors and nonsense, friends will never give you time and will hate you for your disloyalty.
7- Treat each other with respect and respect each other
Good friends always have mutual and heartfelt respect for each other.
If your partner has certain values and beliefs, but you don't agree with them, still try to respect his / her choices and values and be open to hearing more about them.
If you want your friends to trust you, some of your friends may express ideas that you may not agree with or discuss a new idea with you. Respect is at work.
Also if your friend thinks that you can't tolerate his natural taste and idea, then this friendship of yours will not last and has no value.
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Sometimes your friend will do something that doesn't look good to you, will be annoying and annoying, but if you respect your friend, then you will be able to give your friend the right to speak, comment and judge. Paid.
Sometimes you may not look at one thing at a time and disagree, but you are willing to look at things from a different point of view, while still being friends, because you have patience and gratitude for each other.
