Seven Most Important Tips About Friendship! part-1
There is a lot of emphasis on friends, there is discussion everywhere and between everyone, trying to make everyone have good friends, because good friends can help you in life when you are cold and hot and in your progress. And contribute to success.
There are many definitions for a friend, ie each person has a different definition for a friend, but in practice it is not easy to have a good friend, because a strong and honest friendship takes time and sincerity requires that sincerity The person depends on effort and inclination.
It may be that some years ago some people were by your side, not many, but you must have been exposed to the essence and value of friendship, which is how much fun it is to have a good friendship.
However, in order for you to be a good friend, you must be (one), that is, be honest, not hypocritical. Because it is so important for a good and deep friendship.
So let's read these guidelines with us, to be permanent friends, not temporary.
- 1- Keep your promises
Never make a promise that is beyond your means, or at least don't make it a habit.
If you stand up, shake hands and raise your hand in adversity with your partner, it will be the biggest task to strengthen your friendship, because friendship means cooperating with each other in adversity.
But if you can't co-operate, apologize to your friend for something that is beyond my ability. If the other person is a good friend, then don't overdo it and don't get upset. Because man is imperfect, it is good if you do not fulfill a promise, but you will not make it a habit to break the promise every time.
If you are always breaking that promise, then you will never appear committed, trustworthy and friendly to others and friends.
Note:
When you make a firm commitment to a friend, then look your partner in the eye and tell him firmly, that you are truthful, not only speak, but also act, because such firm promises must not be broken. Because it will hurt your partner badly and maybe even end your friendship with him.
- 2- Be reliable
Being trustworthy and reliable is another important sign for a good friend. Your friend will desperately need your help, but if you are a forger and untrustworthy, your friend will never like you and will not ask you to share secrets and help you as your closest friend.
Every human being has some secrets and intentions, these secrets are not shared with a person who says, I will keep it, but in fact betrays it, not acting as he says. If the other person's trust is shattered, they will never believe you again.
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When you know you can't do something, don't compromise, but instead prove to the other party that if I do it, I can't do it well.
Your friend will feel that he or she will have to deal with you in a difficult situation, but if you just play with him or her and spend time with him or her on a difficult day, then you are nothing. Just a half-way friend, then no half-way friend, no friend is good.
