A woman should never ask a man and a man should never ask a woman for these three things:
1. To a loved one, his/her lover looks perfect and thinks that he/she is the best, most beautiful and capable woman / man in the world. Such a belief of a lover is not always right, but is often wrong.
You may have heard that Plane and Planet got married in love but now they hate each other instead of love, they are the same lovers who made love lunatics, when they got married what they expected before marriage. After marriage, when they know each other well, they see that their previous thinking is wrong, thus they gradually regret their choice and their life becomes more and more bitter.
- So never think and hope that your love / husband / wife is the best person in the world, because if over time this wish does not come true, or if this thought proves to be wrong then you will The heart breaks hard.
2. Many people think that their spouse is the same person they first met, knew and will not change until the Day of Judgment. If you think the same way, it can be said that The place is hopeful.
As human beings grow and change over time, so do their relationships and personality.
If you do not accept the change that life demands and you see a slight change in your spouse, you will think that this is not what I saw before marriage.
3. Research shows that if a husband and wife have expectations from each other that are difficult to fulfill and cannot be fulfilled, cohabitation can be stressful and destabilize the family.
"One of the most important things in cohabitation is to understand each other, to forgive, and to be forgiving and kind instead of restricting. Prevention and a happy cohabitation should be done.
